Sadly, Daphne subsequently committed suicide six days later. He claims he set up a trust fund for her daughter. If so, that is nice. But even in this case, he can’t avoid ridiculing the manner of her death, jumping off the roof of a building, saying, “Clearly, only a man would do some gangster shit like that”. Wrong. Clearly, only someone determined to succeed in the attempt would do that. After putting words in her mouth and claiming insights that can never be known after her death, Chappelle ends the story by saying he wants to present the money to her daughter when she is 21, accompanied by the statement that “I knew your father, and was a wonderful woman”. One final swipe! All of which still glosses over the fact that Daphne was yet another LGBTQ+ suicide casualty.
He states that “It is over. I’m not telling another joke about you until it is clear that we are laughing together.” In other words, “The singular target of my hate must come around to my point of view”. He concludes with yet another false equivalency between the experience of Black Americans and the LGBTQ+ community.
Here’s my conclusion, which is substantially more different and more accurate than Chappelle’s: Ancient peoples didn’t even have a word for “race”. Obviously, some ethnic groups treated others with more or less respect. Slavery was widespread but you certainly didn’t need to be Black to be enslaved in ancient Greece, Egypt or Rome. Racism is a fairly modern invention. Correspondingly, the history of Black people in the US from 1619 on has been reprehensible. There is no question about that.
However, LGBTQ+ people have been targeted, discriminated against, and killed for many thousands of years in almost every culture. Today it is, in fact, more deadly to be LGBTQ+ in America than it is to be Black.
Discrimination is bad. Being discriminated against as a Black Man offers absolutely no license to discriminate against the LGBTQ+ community. However, that is precisely what Chappelle is doing. If he is that concerned about the safety and progress of Black people in America, perhaps he should have done a series of Netflix specials that would advance that goal. Instead, he took out his insecurity and hate on a different marginalized population.
It is grotesque, vile, and unacceptable behavior.
I will never watch any Chappelle show or special again. I’ve seen and heard quite enough.